Autism

How can the tutors support autistic children and young people?

How best to support your child at home

• Learn about AutismThe more you understand autism, the better equipped you are to understand the diagnosis. It will help you make decisions about your child. There is a number of fantastic websites on autism available, including the National Autism Society and Autism Speaks.

• Learn about your childBecome an expert on your child and how autism affects them in their own distinctive way. Get to know their triggers, sensitivities and challenges. Learn what helps them when they face these obstacles. Be aware that there will be some trial and error – and what might work one day, may not work the next. But children with autism often display patterns in their behaviour, and the more you get to know these patterns, the more you will know how to help them in different situations
• Work as a teamBuild a partnership with your child, the school and any other professionals that support your child. Work together to discuss options, discuss and devise practical support plans, and make decisions that draw on good input from others.
• Make home the comfort zoneLet home be a place where your child can be completely themselves. A place they do not have to worry about following social protocols. Be aware that precisely because this is the place they can be most relaxed and their way of being natural, they may have more meltdowns or moments of really challenging behaviour. There is no single way to try and deal with this, but as you get to know your child, you will know what helps them best. But don’t be afraid to ask for advice from professionals that work with your child to create a plan for if and when these situations arise.
• Be patient and celebrate positivesUnderstand and accept that there will be ups and downs! There will be progress on some days, and setbacks on others. They are not the fault of either your child or you. Just be patient – making any situation better can take time. But also celebrate the positives, no matter how big or how small. Let your child know how proud you are of them, and that you are always there to help them.