Spelling can be one of the most challenging areas for a dyslexic child. Even children who are bright, articulate, and full of ideas may struggle to remember how words look, how sounds link together, or how spelling patterns work. When parents understand why spelling is so difficult for a dyslexic child, it becomes much easier to make a plan that truly supports them. Knowing the reason behind the struggle helps families choose strategies that build confidence and make spelling feel achievable - and even enjoyable.
Key Takeaways
- Dyslexic children often struggle with phonological awareness, making it harder to hear and break down the sounds within words.
- Working memory differences can make it difficult for a dyslexic child to hold multiple sounds, letters, or spelling rules in mind long enough to write them down.
- Dyslexic children may find it challenging to store and retrieve the visual look of a word, which impacts their spelling accuracy.
- Spelling difficulties are not caused by laziness, they are rooted in how the dyslexic brain processes language.
- Early, specialist support can significantly improve spelling confidence, accuracy, and long‑term literacy skills.
Why do dyslexic children find spelling so difficult?
Spelling relies on several cognitive processes working together: hearing sounds, remembering them, linking them to letters, and recalling how the word looks. Dyslexic children often experience differences in these areas, making spelling feel confusing or unpredictable. When parents understand these underlying processes, it becomes much clearer why their dyslexic child struggles with spelling.
- Understanding spelling difficulties helps parents see why their dyslexic child struggles, turning confusion into clarity.
- Recognising underlying reasons allows families to respond with empathy rather than frustration, knowing the difficulty is neurological, not behavioural.
- Creating supportive plans becomes easier once parents understand the root causes, helping them choose strategies that genuinely meet their child’s needs.
Once parents understand why spelling is difficult for their dyslexic child, they can make a thoughtful, supportive plan that builds confidence and makes spelling feel far more manageable. UK dyslexia support organisation, Dyslexia UK, present a supportive guide for families to help them discover how a dyslexic profile can impact their child’s spelling skills.
What does phonological awareness have to do with spelling?
Phonological awareness is the ability to hear, identify, and manipulate the sounds in words. Dyslexic children often find this difficult, which directly affects spelling.
- Dyslexic children may struggle to break words into individual sounds (eg. hearing cat as a word, rather than c – a – t.
- They may find it hard to blend sounds together, making spelling patterns confusing.
- They may mix up similar sounds such as “b” and “d”, “ch” and “sh”. They may also confuse their vowel sounds.
These challenges mean that spelling becomes guesswork rather than a predictable process. When a dyslexic child cannot clearly hear or separate the sounds in a word, spelling becomes much harder. Strengthening phonological awareness is often the first step in improving spelling confidence.
How does working memory affect spelling?
Working memory helps children hold information in mind long enough to use it. Dyslexic children often have reduced working memory capacity, which affects spelling in several ways.
- They may forget the sequence of sounds before they finish writing the word.
- They may lose track of spelling rules or patterns mid‑sentence.
- They may struggle to remember multi‑step instructions such as “sound it out, write it down, check it.”
For example, a dyslexic child may correctly sound out a word such as “frog”, but by the time they write the “f” and the “r” they may have been unable to recall the “o” and the “g”. This is not carelessness - it is a working memory difference. Supporting working memory through repetition, visual prompts, and structured teaching can make spelling feel more manageable.
Why do dyslexic children struggle to remember how words look?
Spelling also relies on the process of storing the visual pattern of a word in long‑term memory. Dyslexic children often find this difficult, which affects spelling consistency.
- They may spell the same word differently each time because the visual pattern hasn’t “stuck.”
- They may rely heavily on sounding out, even for words that cannot be spelled phonetically (words such as “said” or “one”).
- They may find it hard to remember letter order, especially in longer words.
This is why dyslexic children may read a word correctly but still struggle to spell it. This skill can improve with structured, multi-sensory teaching.
We are delighted to include a personal contribution from dyslexia writer and advocate, Joslyn Lundie, CPD Projects Officer at the Law Society of Scotland.
Joslyn also supports global dyslexia charity Made by Dyslexia. She shares how she once struggled with her spelling challenges:
"For a long time, I didn’t want to own up to being dyslexic.”
Like many dyslexic adults, she worried about other people’s perception of her skills:
“I worried people would assume I couldn’t communicate well, write a decent email or get my message across.”
As time progressed, Joslyn began to understand her dyslexic mind more deeply - not as something to apologise for, but as just a different way of thinking. She started to see the bigger picture, embrace her dyslexia and say: “Yes, I might spell something wrong or write a sentence slightly back to front.”
As her confidence grew, Joslyn realised her dyslexic strengths were a unique way of processing information, bringing her to the present where: “A much bigger part of my day is seeing the whole picture, spotting patterns, connecting ideas and finding different ways of doing things. How I write and how I think aren’t the same skill. I’ve stopped treating the first one as a verdict on the second.”
Joslyn is also a proud supporter of Made By Dyslexia - a global charity that celebrates dyslexic strengths and encourages people to embrace Dyslexic Thinking. Her association with Made by Dyslexia has been inspirational: “The organisation as a whole does wonderful work empowering dyslexic thinkers and helping them see how they work.”
“Over the last year I’ve started using the Made by Dyslexia email signature, and it’s made me far more comfortable being open: ‘I’m Made By Dyslexia: Expect creative thinking and creative spelling’... it’s helped me see dyslexia less as something to hide and more as part of how I think.”
Her final message is empowering - especially for dyslexic children and adults who may still be doubting themselves:
“…if you’re dyslexic, or you remember sitting in a classroom wondering why you couldn’t focus in certain lessons: it wasn’t because you weren’t clever or weren’t trying. It’s often because you weren’t being taught in a way you could connect to. I wish I’d known that earlier.”
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Frequently Asked Questions
Why does my dyslexic child spell the same word differently each time?
This happens because the visual pattern of the word hasn’t been stored securely in long‑term memory. Dyslexic children often rely on sounding out rather than orthographic mapping, which leads to inconsistent spelling. Strengthening phonological awareness and practising high‑frequency words using multisensory methods can help.
How can I help my dyslexic child with spelling at home?
Use short, low‑pressure activities such as magnetic letters, sand writing, or air‑tracing. Break words into sounds together and practise them in small chunks. Keep sessions brief and positive, and avoid correcting every mistake — focus on building confidence first.
Should my dyslexic child learn spelling rules?
Yes, but gently and gradually. Dyslexic children benefit from clear, predictable rules taught through repetition and multisensory methods. Avoid overwhelming them with too many rules at once; focus on the ones they will use most often.
Why does my dyslexic child struggle with silent letters?
Silent letters require strong orthographic memory, which dyslexic children may find difficult. Words like knight, thumb, or island cannot be sounded out reliably, so they need repeated exposure and visual reinforcement.
Is spelling linked to reading difficulties?
Often, yes. Both skills rely on phonological awareness and working memory. A dyslexic child who struggles with reading may also find spelling difficult, but targeted support can improve both areas.
Can specialist tutoring help with spelling difficulties?
Absolutely. Specialist tutors understand how dyslexic children process language and can teach spelling in structured, multisensory ways that reduce overwhelm. Many dyslexic children make significant progress with one‑to‑one support.
